Today, my beautiful wife and best friend enters Johns Hopkins Kimmel Cancer Center to receive the greatest gift that any leukemia patient can be given: a bone marrow transplant and a second chance at life with a new DNA from a very generous (and anonymous) donor from somewhere out there in this wonderful world.
Weโve received so many cards, letters, emails, Facebook and Twitter mentions via #JennStrong โ the sheer volume of love that has flowed in the direction of Jennifer Ford Aparicio over the past 90 days has been staggering and eye-opening โ and we want to first just express our gratitude for all of the concern and offers of kindness and sweet gestures. As awful as some our experiences have been with people over the years, this time in our lives will always be remembered for the good (if not the BEST) in people, especially when some days the burden felt very heavy for us.
The love has truly been medicinal on some days when she struggled physically and emotionally. Make no mistake about it, this has been heavy lifting in so many ways.
Weโve been peppered with so many questions and concerns regarding her health and honestly donโt know where to begin with dispensing some of the more amazing โ and at times โgruesomeโ for the queasy amongst us โ information regarding blood cancer, leukemia and bone marrow transplants. Iโm probably the biggest wuss on the planet when it comes to the mention or sight of blood (and Jenn is diabetic to begin with) so this whole thing has been like seeing snakes for me from the beginning.
But hereโs what you really need to know and hopefully this blog answers some of the FAQs of the #JennStrong bone marrow transplant:
Jenn enters the hospital today and will undergo a week of chemotherapy in preparation for her bone marrow transplant next Tuesday, June 17. (This will be her new โbirthday.โ) There is no โsurgeryโ โ just a bag of stem cells and blood that gets attached to her via her port, a pair of tubes that were inserted into her back on March 21st.
Our understanding is that there are many less than desirable outcomes that could result from this procedure โ there are whole handbooks on Graft vs. Host Disease and other scary complications. Our doctors have been steadfast in their belief that sheโs a great candidate for this procedure and that a perfect match and new DNA and bone marrow could give her a whole new lease on life over the next six months. They were also very sobering in their discussions of all of the percentages of living vs. dying, cure vs. recurrence of cancer and various ailments that could exist or take place during the next few weeks.
But itโs also very clear that this is Jennโs only chance to survive because even though sheโs in remission and cancer free right now, her pathology indicated that her specific leukemia would certainly come roaring back before the end of football season.
Last week a dear friend and client went to breakfast with us and began the conversation by saying, โWow, you guys have been through a lot of bad stuff!โ And we said, โSure, but letโs examine where we were three months ago and the amazing place where we are now.โ
On March 20th at 8 a.m. after months of planning with Jenn and my family, I announced the release of my book on the Orioles and Peter Angelos called โThe Peter Principlesโ and my radio comeback after nine years off the air. Nine hours later, Jenn was diagnosed with a rare form of leukemia. She began chemotherapy the next day.
On March 27th the doctors somberly entered her hospital room and told us that in terms of treatments there are three types of leukemia: good, intermediate and bad. We were told hers was